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  • A Wish

    I wish wanting you were enough. Enough to quiet the distance,enough to soften the timing,enough to make all the wrong piecessomehow fit. But some people arriveand feel like almost everythingyou’ve been waiting for— and still, somehow,they are not yours to keep. So I carry the ache quietly,loving what is,grieving what could be,and trying not to… Read more

  • Here’s The Real Tea

    Things have officially gotten out of hand. I’ve written here about my experiences with dating apps. I’ve written about my most recent attempt at a relationship. And up until now, I’ve been very careful about how I’ve told those stories. Careful with people’s feelings. Careful not to sound angry. Careful to soften things. I’m tired… Read more

  • Small Updates

    I started this blog to keep track of what’s going on in my life, and in the world, and I have not been keeping up lately. So I’m just going to write up a quick overview of my last couple of months, even if some of it is repeated from other more in depth posts.… Read more

  • Past Choices

    What is one decision you made in the moment—without fully realizing it—that quietly changed the entire direction of your life? I have quite a few:– What if I had immediately told my mom about an abuser when I was 12 instead of keeping it a secret? – What if I’d done things differently and nurtured… Read more