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  • Just Friends

    As I’ve written about before, back in March of this year I put myself out there on Facebook dating. I talked to many guys at first. Then narrowed it down to just a few. And after some time it was down to a very clear #1 choice. He and I have now chatted every single… Read more

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  • My Personal Revolution

    My entire adult life, I have moved from relationship to relationship. I have been, without question, a serial monogamist. As a teenager, I truly believed that being alone was one of the worst things that could happen to a person. That belief followed me into adulthood. I threw myself into relationships completely, becoming whatever my… Read more

  • Happy PRIDE 2026

    Liz and I went to Capitol City Pride in East Village, Des Moines, IA. We had a fantastic time! The parade was fabulous, everyone was friendly, welcoming and joyful. And we got some pretty great swag from Raygun and some of the booths and vendors. Overall and GREAT day! Read more

  • Past Choices

    What is one decision you made in the moment—without fully realizing it—that quietly changed the entire direction of your life? I have quite a few:– What if I had immediately told my mom about an abuser when I was 12 instead of keeping it a secret? – What if I’d done things differently and nurtured… Read more